Yea, I think there's a lot of validity to that. Been reassessing my own expectations for a partner in the wake of writing this.
But I think structural issues in the dating apps are making it that much worse for anyone going that route. Kind of hard to explain my full view on it here, but I've already written an article elaborating on it, and I'll submit it to a publication in a few days.
The title is "Dating Apps Are Setting Men and Women Up for Failure - But for Different Reasons." If you've been doing the internet thing as well, I'd be excited to hear your thoughts on it in a few days time.