Well, in this case I see it as compensating only because I'm meeting them on dating apps. I've basically converted would-be romantic partners into friends, and that has led to an odd dynamic at times. In general, the gender of my friends doesn't matter, except for the fact that I'd like some friends who share those few interests I have that seem to be more common among men.

I agree. It probably is more of a sporadic occurence, but I still need exposure to make that possible. Will probably check out a workout class, like you mentioned, since I'm already big into exercise.

Thanks for the thoughtful coomment!