Martin Vidal
May 31, 2024

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That's interesting. I'm kind of with you there. I'm rarely in a rush to have sex nowadays, and there's a few times I've felt pressured to go there sooner than I'd like.

I will say that if I feel a strong connection quickly, I do want things to get intimate ASAP, because I'm worried that we won't have chemistry in the bedroom, and I'll grow increasingly attached to them, only to find that I'd rather just be friends.

I feel like the male-female experience tends to be very different on these things, so it's great to hear both sides, especially since those two sides coming together (in most of our cases) is what it's all about.

I'm glad you enjoyed the piece! Thanks for taking the time to let me know and for leaving a thoughtful comment.

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Martin Vidal
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