Thanks!
1. That's a good question, and I don't have an answer for it. But anecdotally, I think men are not too discriminate with their matches either. Men seem more promiscuous in general. I think if a man has a lot of options, he's likely gonna take advantage of that. But who knows, I can't speak for all men that's just what I've witnessed from the ones I know personally.
2. If you take away height, it's actually 3.1% of men between 30 and 40. But that's probably mostly because of income. The median income in the U.S. is like $37,000. If you have half of people below that, how many are gonna be making almost 3x as much? Also, 41.9% of Americans are obese.
3. Volunteer work I've definitely been wanting to get back into. That's a great suggestion. Book club would be super cool too. Does one just google those to find them? Seems like it's usually somebody knows a person who knows a person.