Martin Vidal
1 min readFeb 4, 2025

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Respectfully, you're coming across as majorly red-pilled.

As someone who just returned from over 3 months in Japan, I can say that, of course, there are cultural differences with people from every country.

But this idea that Western women are somehow unapproachable, shallow, or vain is nonsense. Some of the smartest, most humble, and most approachable women I've met have been in the West.

I think the better approach would be to look in the mirror and ask yourself why they might not be giving you specifically the time of day. It does take a little bit of finesse to approach women how they want to be approached. And if you're entering the conversation with these women with a stereotype in your head, like "All Western women are stuck up." How do you think you're going to come across?

You'll very likely give hints of being defensive, hateful, or nervous, as you're already anticipating rejection. In the words of Ted Lasso, "All people are different people." Just approach whomever with respect, consideration, and an awareness that there's a whole, unique soul in front of you.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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Martin Vidal
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