In "The End of Evangelion" we see a 14-year-old girl naked and being groped by a grown man. We see another 14-year-old girl naked in a hospital bed, and the main character masturbates in front of her to completion while she's passed out. We see a 14-year-old boy kissing a grown woman, who promises him when he comes back there'll be more where that came from.

One of those 14-year-old girls turns into a giant embodiment of herself, and a third eye opens up on her forehead, which then turns into an actual vagina with a clitoris and all, and is then penetrated by a spear. This is just from the finale.

The whole show saw Asuka (14) being sexualized in nearly every scene that she wasn't in an Eva. Rei (14) is shown naked in a tank over and over again. The school boys are constantly talking about both the girls' breasts and bodies. Literally in Asuka's introductory scene her skirt flies up exposing her panties/vagina to the boys from the school, and then one of the boys from the school drops his pants and shows her his penis.

In multiple dream/imagination sequences, both Rei, Asuka, and an older female character are shown begging to combine with Shinji (14) and promising how good it will feel. In one of them, Asuka is asking Shinji (14) to masturbate in front of her. In another, Rei falls showing her panties to Shinji on their first meeting.

I don't think a person could miss their sexualization. This is on par with saying there was no violence in the show.