I do. But I don't think they were a "yes" because of that, I think they were ultimately a "no" because of that. My exes have typically been the needy types that just overwhelm my natural defenses. It never went anywhere with one of those two because literally neither of us would make any type of emotional first move whatsoever, so spot on in that case. But the other one, her and I lived together for a period of time, so we got close.