I can't disagree with you, but this does fit my personality and lifestyle a little better than some other options.

Also, I met my ex girlfriend, and a number of serious contenders for my next girlfriend on there--it's just a slog, but it can be effective if enough effort is put into it.

Still, I hear what you're saying, I think you make a valid point, and I hope to try to incorporate something like that in my life, but as a consummate introvert who detests being in any sort of group setting, it's not exactly ideal for me either.