Haha kind of in a catch 22 responding to this one. I feel like if I'm vague it'll seem like I'm into something really weird, and if I'm specific, it'll be oversharing.

Well, in the spirit of transparency: I don't really feel turned on by a woman unless she's highly orgasmic. There are some women who are basically convulsing the whole time, veins popping out in their necks, clawing at the sheets, and screaming with tears running down their face towards the end. On the opposite side of the spectrum, there are those who just stare at me in the eyes, silently, like nothing is happening. No matter how attractive, I can basically muster zero enthusiasm for the latter at this point.

There's room for marginal improvements; I can always do more or less to achieve the desired end, of course. But no matter how I try to work at it, the difference between the two sexual scenarios seems to only change by small degrees.

And I don’t want anyone to feel insecure thinking that this is true for most guys. I’ve never heard other men complain about it much. But I’m a bit of an empath, and what does it for me is being able to see that my partner is thoroughly satisfied.