Can't tell if you're being facetious or not, so I'll respond as if it's a genuine comment.

But yes, I know for a fact a lot of women go through that as I've seen how men talk about them behind the scenes. They have no delusions about just wanting them for sex.

It's good to be wanted, and can even be good if you both want to just "use" each other, but it can be less than ideal when you want them as a person, and they only want you as an object--for one, that'll only keep them around for so long.